Toolkit • Templates

Neutral Message Templates

Copy/paste and adjust facts only. Keep tone brief, neutral, and factual.

Pickups / Logistics

“To confirm, I’ll arrive at [location] at [time] on [date] to pick up [item]. If anything changes, please reply by [deadline].”

Money / Reimbursements

“Following up on [expense] from [date]. Please send $[amount] by [date]. If you disagree, tell me what you believe is accurate.”

Boundaries

“Please keep messages to scheduling or case logistics. I won’t respond to insults or personal comments.”

Confirming a Phone Call

“To confirm our call today: we agreed to [agreement]. If I missed anything, reply in writing.”

Disclaimer: This is general education for a Virginia‑leaning audience, offered by Men Too Movement. It is not legal advice and doesn’t create an attorney‑client relationship. Laws and court practices change. Talk to a licensed lawyer about your case.