Primers

Communicating Safely During a Dispute (Texts & Email)

General education, not legal advice. Rules vary by state and court.

Big Picture

Your words can become exhibits. Write like a judge might read it.
De‑escalation protects safety and your case. Don’t feed screenshots.
Keep a paper trail: archive, export, and log important contacts.

Quick Wins

Use short, neutral replies. Avoid sarcasm, threats, and late‑night texting.
Confirm key agreements in writing (“To confirm, we agreed to …”).
Save originals: export threads and email to PDF; back up your phone.

Core Steps

Choose channels (email/text) and stick to them for important items.
Use neutral templates for hot topics (money, pickups, property).
Log calls/emails with dates and outcomes.
If harassment begins, stop engaging and document. Ask a lawyer about protective options.

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Disclaimer: This is general education for a Virginia‑leaning audience, offered by Men Too Movement. It is not legal advice and doesn’t create an attorney‑client relationship. Laws and court practices change. Talk to a licensed lawyer about your case.